How to Piss Off Men by Kyle Prue

BE NO MAN'S PEACE.

Have you ever been badgered by an annoying pick-up artist at the bar? Ever felt a burning desire to emotionally torture a friend’s boyfriend in an act of revenge? Have you ever endured just talking to a man before?

If so, then this book is for you.

With more than 100 phrases, questions, and comebacks, How to Piss Off Men is your essential guide to sending even the most relentless mansplainer into an existential crisis. Whether it’s referring to his expensive NFL jersey as “cosplay” or letting him know he has the confidence of a much taller man, this handbook will ensure you’re equipped to combat toxic masculinity in any situation.*

* The advice in this book has been thoroughly tested for effectiveness. Even on the author, bless his heart.

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How to Piss Off Men is a snarky, sharp-witted guidebook for anyone who's ever been frustrated by unwanted male attention or simply needed the perfect comeback to an overconfident mansplainer. It promises a toolbox of quips designed to not just deflate egos but to turn the tables in any conversation with hilarious, often biting, wit.

From the outset, the book makes its intention clear with its unapologetic title and premise. This is not for the faint of heart—or for anyone afraid to ruffle a few feathers. The tone is decidedly irreverent, with tongue-in-cheek advice on how to disrupt the tired, repetitive dynamics of toxic masculinity. The humour is edgy and pointed, making it a fun, rebellious read for anyone who enjoys witty banter and a good verbal takedown. Many of the phrases are a clever reversal of the type of things men often say to women, and it's fun to imagine their sputtering responses.

The over-the-top nature of some of the phrases, like calling an NFL jersey “cosplay,” is what gives this book its charm. It doesn't take itself too seriously, but it offers real value in its underlying message: women shouldn’t have to tolerate being talked down to, objectified, or ignored. The book encourages readers to find humour in pushing back, taking control of conversations, and making space for themselves.

However, some readers might find the tone too abrasive or the content a bit limited. It’s very much a niche book, aimed at those who already appreciate this kind of humour and want to weaponize it for their own amusement. The phrases and scenarios presented are funny, but there’s not much beyond the gags. It’s a fun diversion, but it won’t change anyone’s world—or likely the behaviour of the men it’s poking fun at. It's also a very quick read - I polished it off in about 15 minutes, as it's basically a list of one liners with some explanations here and there.

In short, How to Piss Off Men is a cheeky, cathartic guide for the quick-witted, offering laughs and a sense of empowerment for anyone looking to fight back against everyday sexism with a well-timed zinger.

How to Piss Off Men publishes on the 17th September, 2024. I received a free copy and am giving an honest review.